Faith and family
Set up by the people who know you, with marriage in mind
For many Latter-day Saints, family is at the centre of life, dating has marriage in mind, and being set up by a friend or relative is a familiar way to meet. Mutually is an invite-only way to be introduced like that, by someone who knows you both, and it’s open to everyone.
Introduced by friends and family
Being set up needs little explaining: a friend, a sibling or a parent knows two people and thinks they should talk. For many Latter-day Saints, dating is intentional too, with marriage in mind. Mutually works the same way. Nobody browses anyone, and what each of you is hoping for comes first when we look, so an introduction starts from what you both want. It’s made only when someone who knows you both is willing to suggest it, and the friends and family who describe you do so freely, because they care about you.
Your circle describes you
Three to ten friends and family describe your character from a private link. No app, no account, and each chooses who may see their words.
Someone who knows you both
An introduction is only made when a person who knows you both is willing to suggest it. Most ideas stop there, and that’s the point.
Family at the centre
When family is at the centre of life, the people at home are among those who know you best. Mutually makes room for them. Parents, siblings, cousins and family friends can be in your circle, describing who you are from a private link, and a parent can be a Connector if you invite them. In your conversation with us, you can say the part you’d like your family to play. They offer insight, never a veto. You always choose.
Privacy, modesty and consent
Your standards, your pace and your decisions stay your own. Nothing about you is public, and if your faith matters to you, you can tell us privately: it’s never shown to anyone.
No public profile
No feed, no browsing, no directory. Nobody can look you up.
Photos stay inside an introduction
Photos are only ever seen inside an introduction, never on display.
Each answer is private
You each decide privately. Neither sees the other’s answer until it’s mutual.
One introduction at a time
Focus mode pauses new introductions while you get to know someone.
What Mutually is not
Mutually isn’t a Latter-day Saint service, and it doesn’t replace your family, your friends or anyone who already sets people up. It’s one more way for the people who know you to help, with care. There’s nothing to scroll, and no scores or ratings. It’s open to adults of every faith and none, on the same terms. If your faith matters to you, it can matter here, privately.
What it costs
Free while we grow. Later, a simple membership for active Seekers, the people looking for an introduction. Connectors, and the family and friends who describe or vouch for someone, never pay. Nobody can pay to be seen.
Questions
Yes, as much as you’d like. A parent, brother or sister can be in your circle and describe your character from a private link, with no app or account. A parent can also be a Connector if you invite them, and be asked whether they’d introduce you to someone they also know. They offer insight, never a veto. You always choose.
Yes. Nothing here hurries you. Each of you decides privately whether to go ahead with an introduction, and neither sees the other’s answer until it’s mutual. You choose how to meet, and Focus mode pauses new introductions while you get to know someone, so your attention stays with one person. You can pause Mutually whenever you need to.
It needn’t be. You each answer privately, and neither of you sees the other’s answer unless it’s mutual. The friend or relative who suggested the introduction knows it was proposed, but never learns who said what. An introduction that doesn’t go further simply closes, quietly.
Yes, on exactly the same terms, and the same goes if you’re new to your faith. Your circle describes the person you are now, and an introduction is only made when someone who knows you both thinks it’s worth making.
Everyone: adults of every faith and none, on the same terms. This page describes how Mutually sits alongside values many Latter-day Saint families hold: family at the centre, dating with intention, and service to others.
No. There’s no public profile and nothing to browse, so nobody can look you up. The friends and family you invite to describe you will know you’re here, as will a Connector who suggests an introduction for you. Photos are only ever seen inside an introduction.
Free while we grow. Later, a simple membership for active Seekers, the people looking for an introduction. Connectors, and the family and friends who describe or vouch for someone, never pay. Nobody can pay to be seen.
If this is how you’d hope to meet someone
Mutually is invite-only. Join the list and we’ll write when there’s room, and not before. The fastest way in is still a friend who’s already here.